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To dispel the misconceptions, let’s take a look at some of the universal truths about guys and breakups – some of which may surprise you since they certainly are hidden from the surface. Simple enough to say, but I know plenty of women will talk about how some guy came off like an insensitive jackass after the relationship fell apart because of his actions post-breakup.The fact is: If a guy is profoundly obnoxious or terrible after a breakup, it is most often a testament to how rough the breakup was on him. MORE: 5 Things Every Girl Needs to Know About Guys Jerry Seinfeld once said that breaking up a relationship needs to be like taking off a Band-aid – One motion: OFF!In the same regard, when a relationship ends, it is much much harder for a guy to go back and discuss and revisit and talk through and explain, etc. In fact, guys like to keep their emotional spectrum focused on a tight range of emotions – somewhere between amusement and contentedness.Trying to understand the opposite sex only leads to confusion and headaches, especially if you're single and in the dating pool. When asked who should pay on a first date, the man or the woman, both the majority of male (87%) and female (91%) respondents agree that the man should be the one to pay.To help us understand why men are from mars and women are from venus, polling apps Wishbone and Slingshot are here to help! With men typically seen as the chivalrous ones out to woo the ladies, this data makes sense.