I romanticized a story about an adult man kidnapping, molesting, and raping an adolescent girl.
None of that stuff happened to me, but I still wince when I remember how I idealized the thought of someone being single-mindedly obsessed with me the way the novel’s narrator is with Lolita.
I knew I was attracted to guys; but I was way too scared to explore my feelings so I stayed in the closet for a while.
I was also somewhat distant from my co-ed hallmates. Looking back on the situation, most of the guys and girls around me were also excited about being away from home and exploring their own interests.
Looking back at that relationship now, seven years later, there are so many things I wish someone had told me before I decided to become the Lolita to this guy’s Humbert².
That, by the way, is actually a comparison I made at the time, which is so gross to me now.
Of course, that’s second to keeping alive your relationships with God, your family and friends.If I had a dollar for every Christian girl who dated a bay boy I’d be wealthy.Fortunately, through, I have some solid Christian dating advice for men. These suggestions can help you make the best out of your college or high school experience. College is much less insular than high school campuses can be, but both can be great times to express yourself and explore your interests.